thirteen years ago

When we tied the knot, we didn’t really know what we were getting into. (Nobody does, according to my grandma).

Since then we’ve

Said “Good morning” about 4700 times

Eaten over 9400 meals together

Survived 9 years of graduate school 

Bought a house

Witnessed the birth of our two sons

Walked with each other through numerous job-related stressors, including a job from hell (that mercifully lasted less than a month)

Apologized a lot

And learned to keep short accounts

One important gift we can give to our kids is an example of sticking to one’s commitments and being “all in” – even when it’s hard or messy or feelings get hurt. Because the joy that results is worth the effort.

Thirteen years later we both still say, “I do.” With God’s help. No matter what.